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Elizabeth Cunningham's avatar

So much loss. Such a powerful witness that the sea is the source of life and death for so many. Thanks for sharing.

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Mary Swander's avatar

Thank you, Elizabeth. So good to have you as a reader.

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Bob Sessions's avatar

Powerful story well told Mary!

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Mary Swander's avatar

Thanks, Bob. I told you there was more coming.

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Tim Grover's avatar

Reminds me of the monument we saw in Homer, Alaska to local mariners lost at sea. There should be something like that in Iowa for victims of farm accidents.

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Mary Swander's avatar

Stay tuned.

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Lisa Ross's avatar

It is a moving story extremely well told! Thank you for grabbing and keeping my interest, and reminding me of the power of the ocean!

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Mary Swander's avatar

Thank you, Lisa. Please restack if you can.

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Liese's avatar

Powerful and sad. Beautifully written. Thank you.

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Mary Swander's avatar

Thank you, Liese.

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Evalee Mickey's avatar

Such a sad story, probably one that has happened many times……doesn’t make it any easier. My prayers for their families

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Mary Swander's avatar

Yes, it’s a way of life in Connemara. Multiple drownings in one family is fairly common. Unfortunately, it has been going on for centuries.

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Roberta (Robbie) Lipsman's avatar

What a way to make a life. Not too different from Maine lobstermen, many who cannot swim. But it is their heritage and they don't give up easily.

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Mary Swander's avatar

And I suppose in a poor, isolated place like Connemara where no one knew how to swim, who would teach the others? The Amish don’t know how to swim and are amazed that I do. And that I know how to type.

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Roberta (Robbie) Lipsman's avatar

But in Maine, there are multiple ways to learn how to swim and no excuse to go out on the sea, not knowing! Stubbornness. You are right, how can the people of Connemara learn if no one knows how to swim . And I am guessing there are no swimming pools with calm water!

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Mary Swander's avatar

Well, they started driving the Irish school children to a pool in a nearby city. “Swimming lessons begin today,” read the sign on the school door. You’re right. Hard to break tradition. In Buggy Land, it’s farm accidents. The retired doctor started visiting the Amish one-room schools to teach farm safety.

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Tom Fate's avatar

Beautiful.

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Mary Swander's avatar

Thanks, Tom!

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Nell Regan's avatar

Dear Mary,

A stunning piece. When was that?

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Mary Swander's avatar

2009.

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Robert Leonard's avatar

Lovely.

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Loretta F Ross's avatar

Wow. Thanks!

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Mary Swander's avatar

Thanks for reading!

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